Friday, December 28, 2007

Resolved



Yes its time for those pesky New Year's Resolutions. These are mine, well at least the spanko version, obviously these will not be on my vanilla blog. And I do resolve, as well, to try and keep my blog more up to date. Its just terrible when gainful employment interferes with your fun!

1. To be so good that I never need anything but therapy, sensual, or good girl spankings.

2. To stick to the new agreement of one or two pieces of chocolate a week if I feel I really want them (as if there is a doubt).

3. Ok here is a more serious one, to be more assertive in my relationships. And I am sorry but thats as much explaining as I am doing.

4. To get spanked at least once a month, and also to give at least one spanking a month.

5. Stick to my eating plan and exercise each day.

6. Be extremely grateful for the friends that show such care and concern for me and let them know the feelings are returned.

7. Hone my bratting skills to a fine edge. I know I have friends who will help with that one.

8. Continue to keep my life in the direction it is going and embrace all aspects of it.

9. Make sure that those who love and care for me are appreciated and loved in return.

10. Take nothing for granted, especially each wonderful new day.

Hope some of you will jump in and add a resolution or two of you own. Oh and of course I resolve to play with some new implements. That just goes without saying.

Take care,

Monday, December 24, 2007

Warm Holiday Wishes







A little holiday spanking gift from me to you. Some of the all time great spanking scenes in movies. Interestingly enough even the ones not in English really don't require any translation. I do hope you enjoy them!

Have a very happy holiday and may you have warm bottoms and warm hands to go with your kind, warm hearts.

Hugs,
Purple Angel

Sunday, December 23, 2007

12 Days of a BDSM Christmas


No I have no idea who wrote it but it is one of the better 12 days of Christmas parodies that I have found. I found it at Sensuous Sadie's website. I happen to enjoy both her books and the interviews she does with those in the BDSM lifestyle. She takes a very spiritual viewpoint and while there are many parts of the lifestyle she enjoys that I don't think I would I totally respect and appreciate the non judgemental way in which she presents ideas and view points. She also has a fantastic sense of humor.


Enjoy the song and be good to yourself, sing along!!



12 days of a BDSM Christmas~ Anonymous


On the first day of Christmas my Masterhandcuffed me to a branch on a big pear tree


On the second day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,two nipple clampswhile handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the third day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the fourth day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the fifth day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,five vibes that sing...four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the sixth day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,six clitty rings,five vibes that sing...four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the seventh day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,seven paddle whacks,six clitty rings, five vibes that sing...four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the eighth day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,eight whips that crack,seven paddle whacks, six clitty rings,five vibes that sing... four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...



On the ninth day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,nine nasty pinches,eight whips that crack, seven paddle whacks,six clitty rings, five vibes that sing...four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the tenth day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,ten tender touches,nine nasty pinches, eight whips that crack,seven paddle whacks, six clitty rings,five vibes that sing... four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the eleventh day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,eleven loving kisses,ten tender touches, nine nasty pinches,eight whips that crack, seven paddle whacks,six clitty rings, five vibes that sing...four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree...


On the twelfth day of Christmasmy Master gave to me,12 silver chains,eleven loving kisses, ten tender touches,nine nasty pinches, eight whips that crack,seven paddle whacks, six clitty rings,five vibes that sing... four probing fingers,three good tugs on the two nipple clamps,while handcuffed to the pear tree. x

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Missing You All!

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I got this comment at www.midnightcelebrations.com


Where the holidays are dark and sexy!
Well whether or not they are dark and sexy I do hope all of you are surviving the last minute holiday craziness. My job is based on it and I find it unbelievable. I promise to be back soon. I have missed blogging and reading.
Hugs,
Purple Angel

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

How About Some Cheese with that Whine?


Ok well I did forget to do what I was asked. I admit it. However I really didn't think I needed to be spanked. As you can see from the pouty picture I did not do this with the most positive of good girl attitude.

My "older brother" had asked me to send him a link for a gift he wanted to give me. I thought that was very sweet of him and sent the page with the item by email the next day. Well, he never got it and thought perhaps it was blocked due to the fact that it was from an adult site. So he thought that just sending the link in an email would be best. I agreed to do it.

Well, my mind is so crammed full of facts for work (after all I am helping sell kid's toys) and trying to get myself organized with my writing and chores around my apartment. So I hadn't sent it to him by this morning and it should have been sent over the weekend. When he asked about it I admitted I had forgotten and would do it today.

He was very sweet and kind, as always, but told me I was going to be spanked for this. After all I had been asked to do this and needed to do as I was asked. Now our relationship is such that I may always discuss any decision about being spanked. So I, VERY POLITELY, asked why I deserved a spanking for simply forgetting a link for a gift that was actually for me. I would never consider arguing or being rude. For one thing I just love my brother too much to be rude, for another thing it would have meant a second spanking.

As with all discussions, he maintained his point and assigned me a self spanking. Heaving a very dramatic but polite sigh I agreed. And, to be honest, it was not a severe spanking. Thirty good smacks with a hairbrush on each side. Not a terrible spanking but it left my bottom very hot and red. The sore point was that then I had to start work which involves SITTING on a chair answering the phone and working on the computer. I tried standing but it didn't work at all. Guess who remembered to send the computer link?

Ok, done whining....he was right, I need to pay attention to what I am asked to do.

Monday, December 17, 2007

Oh Well Purple Isn't Everything




Well I resolved my issues with the blog my switching templates. I am not crazy about the color but its a huge improvement on the mess my blog had become.

I am looking forward to getting together with a friend this week for some spanking fun. He thinks it would be a great idea to act out my parody on the eight days of Hanukkah on my bottom. I have to agree, a little late but as they say better late then never.

To all the wonderful blogs I read I promise to try and get around more but right now the call volume at Toys R Us is crazy as you might guess. So my time is much more limited.

One of the members of my Yahoo group thought it was too bad we didn't have a special section of Toys R Us for spanko adults. Now wouldn't that be great?! Think of all the internet shipping fees you would save. Ah but then there is that moment when you come out of that section, brown bag in hand and run into a neighbor, the minister, rabbi, teacher, the list goes on. Of course if you run into them in that special section no problem but I could see it being very awkward indeed. It still would be a lot of fun to design such a place.

Friday, December 14, 2007

HELP!




As you can see I could use a helping paw, er, hand. My blog is doing strange things and the format is a mess. I have no idea why and if anyone can provide a little information it would be greatly appreciated. I have tried asking at Blogger Help but haven't gotten any answers back yet. Hopefully I won't become CAT-a-tonic before I get it fixed.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

A Gift for my Non Lurkers and Lurkers




Just thought I would include a little holiday cheer in the form or a coupon anyone can print out and use, be they spanker or spankee.

Now as for where I have been, it is true I did have to clean up all the candle wax from Chanukkah. Dripless candles my foot, I have yet to see any that don't drip. And I even put them in the freezer to keep it at a minimum.

I am not off in a hiding place eating chocolate. I have to be honest and admit I did eat one piece. That leads me to my next admission. Up until this morning I really couldn't say I was being spanked but once I admitted to disobeying the rules and eating chocolate, well not being spanked was a thing of the past. I had a rousing session with the hairbrush and some Ben Gay. I don't recommend that type of spanking as a way to start the day. My "older brother" and I are going to see if I can handle having a two piece a week chocolate limit so I don't feel deprived. But that did not count for this morning since I disobeyed him directly.

What is cutting into my time is I know have an online job for Toys R Us. I love the fact that I can start working again and I need the money very much. So if I am not as present as I was please don't give up on me, I will be around. Oh and by the way the Toys R Us is definitely not the Toys R Me I would choose for holiday gifts.


And we really need a better word than lurkers. Makes it sound like people standing in street corners in trench coats.


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Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Where can that angel be?


Yes I know I have not posted as regularly as I should. Hmm now why should that be.
Here are some options.
1. I am getting so many lovely good girl and sensual spankings I just can't post.
2. I am off in a closet eating all that forbidden chocolate.
3. I got a job and am gainfully employed.
4. Cleaning up wax from Hanuukah candles
5. Writing spanking stories
Now which one or ones is it? Leave me a comment and let me know what you think and I will post in one or two days.
Holiday Hugs to you all!

Sunday, December 9, 2007

My Favorite Position

In the post prior to this one I posted a quiz on spanking positions that was developed by Bonnie at My Bottom Smarts. Well the quizz was right on, I love being otk better than anything else. And the best of all possible positions is when he sits on a bed or a couch and I am over his knee, one or both. There are certain reasons for this and I wonder if it is the same for many of you as well regardless of whether or not you are spanker or spankee.

1. The bed or couch provides enough body support so I don't feel like I am hanging in mid air and wondering if I am going to fall off his lap. I like to focus my attention on other sensations.

2. The intimacy of our two bodies touching while the spanking is going on is amazing. Now I am not discussing punishment, so if we are both undressed it is truly an incredible experience.

3. I love having his arm around my waist, holding me firmly. I am not sure what it is about that feeling but it is wonderful and so reassuring.

4. It is easy to switch implements and still stay connected. If the spanker raises or lowers a leg it presents your bottom in different ways for different effects.

5. If I have the body support of his lap plus the bed or couch, he can use his hands to touch other places, spank with one hand, touch with the other, oh many possibilities.

6. When I switch and I give the spankings, I like to give at least part of it otk so the other person feels that connection and I feel connected to them. Many times if I am spanking a man I can't do the whole spanking over the knee because he is so much taller than I am, that I can't use all the implements properly.

7. Now really, does anything feel as amazing as having your spanked bottom rubbed while you are still over his knee.

8. If it happens to be a discipline spanking I don't feel as alone if I am being held on his lap.

9. He can not only see but feel your body responses to the spanking and have a really good sense of when to slow down and speed up. It also helps judge whether the spanks are hard enough or too hard.

10. Its tradition, spankings over a knee are tradition, everyone deserves a lovely otk at least once in awhile.

Does this mean I don't like other types of spankings? Of course it doesn't. Nope I am a hard wired spanko and love spanking and being spanked. But I guess I am a traditional kind of girl and that over the lap with a hand, then an implement is the hottest form or hot bottom spanking there is for me.

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Saturday, December 8, 2007

The Eight Nights of Chanukkah-a song parody, skip this if you are sick of the holiday parodies!


The Eight Nights of Chanukkah

On the first night of Hanukkah my true love gave to me
Hand spanks over his knee

On the second night of Chanukkah my true love gave to me
Two smacks with a hairbrush
And hand spanks over his knee

On the third night of Chanukkah my true love gave to me
Three rattan cane stripes
Two smacks with a hairbrush
And hand spanks over his knee

On the fourth night of Chanukkah my true love gave to me
Four strokes with a leather strap
Three rattan cane stripes
Two smacks with a hairbrush
And hand spanks over his knee

On the fifth night of Chanukkah my true love gave to me
Five purple paddle spankings
Four strokes with a leather strap
Three rattan cane stripes
Two smacks with a hairbrush
And hand spanks over his knee

On the sixth night of Chanukkah my true love gave to me
Six kisses on my red bottom
Five purple paddle spankings
Four strokes with a leather strap
Three rattan cane stripes
Two smacks with a hairbrush
And hand spanks over his knee

On the seventh night of Chanukkah my true love gave to me
Seven erotic floggings
Six kisses on my red bottom
Five purple paddle spankings
Four strokes with a leather strap
Three rattan cane stripes
Two smacks with a hairbrush
And hand spanks over his knee

On the eighth night of Chanukkah my true love gave to me
Eight new toys for next year
Seven erotic floggings
Six kisses on my red bottom
Five purple paddle spankings
Four strokes with a leather strap
Three rattan cane stripes
Two smacks with a hairbrush
And hand spanks over his knee

Unfortunately all this is in my imaginary play space. But who knows, maybe next year. Happy Holidays and to keep us all together
Happy Chrismukkahwanzaa

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Oh no, The Chocolate Police Better Come on the Run

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Oh dear, this is a dilemma. Any reader of my blogs knows I am not supposed to eat chocolate for health reasons. That is why I don't keep it in the house. I can have things that are simply chocolate flavored but the real stuff is a trigger for medical problems.

Well about four days ago what should arrive in the mail but a one pound box of Trinidads from Fannie May. One of my best friends sent it to me, she knows I shouldn't have them but figures at holiday time you should get special treats. Then yesterday, unreal as it may seem, a wonderful man I met in Chicago (a fellow choclaholic by the way) sent me a huge box of gourmet chocolates.

Now for me eating this sort of thing would bring about spankings of immense proportions in both intensity, duration, and number of sessions. Both my "older brother" and my partner made sure I told them I would give the candy away (give me a moment to wipe away the tears). If I don't I will probably type standing up for the rest of my life. And, of course, I don't really want to be sick. If only I had enough self control to just eat one and then stop.

So I will indeed be sharing the Christmas and Hanukkah spirit this year with many people. Will I eat any myself? Only my cats know and they are not saying! After all they do hate the sound that paddle makes landing on my backside, plus I clean the litter box and pour food into their bowls.

So here I sit looking longingly at the freezer (where the unopened boxes are stashed) and at my bag of toys, always next to my bed in case I have to spank under the direction of one of the two men in my life. Back and forth from one to the other.

As I have said before, chocolate sings a siren song, I swear it calls out my name. Now how am I supposed to sleep with that going on all night? As the picture at the top says "I can find the way myself." So true, I never need help getting into trouble, just getting out. And, oh my, getting out of this would be a mighty sore backside for a mighty long time.

Stay tuned to see what happens!

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Just For Tonight


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Sorry just can't put together a blog tonight, I am totally shocked over the events at the mall in Omaha, Nebraska. Especially since one of my best and most caring friends lives there. Thank God she is fine as is her son. But I keep thinking what if.....

So for tonight my thoughts and prayers are with them and those who are suffering the grief and pain of loss.

Hugs to you all,
Purple Angel

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

A Hanukkah spanking good parody






Everyone by now must have heard the song

I have a little dreidel
I made it out of clay etc......

Well this is my parody in honor of the first night of Hanukkah.
(no applause just throw gelt(money in Yiddish)

I have a dreidel paddle
I made it out of wood
And when my sweetie swings it
I know he'll spank me good.

Oh dreidel dreidel paddle
I made it out of wood
And when my sweetie swings it
I know he'll spank me good.

We'll light each little candle
Eat a delicious feast
The red glow from my backside
Will match the candles at the least

Oh dreidel dreidel paddle
Eat a delicious feast
The red glow from my backside
Will match the candles at the least

For eight days I'll be joyful
As he tries out all our toys.
Eight spanks with every one of them
For naughty girls and boys

Oh dreidel dreidle paddle
As he tries out all our toys
Eight spanks with every one of them
For naughty girls and boys!

Tomorrow my parody on the eight days of Hanukkah.
WEG
Valorie

Hope you like my Hanukkah hat!

Monday, December 3, 2007

A Needed Dose of Care and Love




I knew it was coming, it was just a matter of time. This morning when I spoke with my "older brother" he was delighted to hear that I was feeling much better and my temperature was back to normal. He then asked what I was wearing. Well since I work at home and no one is hear but my furry companions I often hang around the house in a warm robe, sweats, or my flannel pants and t shirts. Today I had on a long caftan. Well, his immediate response was, "Let's lose that young lady."
My mind tried to remember if I had done anything deserving of punishment. No way, I had been to ill to be bad for at least a week and a half. Immediately I asked if I was going to be spanked and the answer was what I had suspected all along....yes.
One thing I noticed today that I have never paid attention to before was the change in my voice. I don't do age regression with anyone who spanks me but today I realized my voice gets smaller and softer when I ask if I am being spanked.
He did tell me I was not being punished but this was strictly for therapy reasons. Then he said it has been too long, you need this and I had to agree. I did need that demonstration of love and care that a spanking of this type has come to mean to me.
So over the phone he "cuddled me" and had me rub my bottom gently. Then he had me start off with soft spanks of the hairbrush interspersed with continued rubbing both on my bottom and in more sensitive areas as well. His voice is always very loving, even if it is punishment. But he was so very sweet to me this morning that I felt totally cared for even over the phone.
Under his direction the spanks increased in intensity so that I started crying softly and then harder. It was a release I needed very much and once again, there was always the inevitable soft voice telling me to rub my bottom with the brush, let my hand stroke myself.
During spankings he always tells me he knows there is a naughty girl inside that needs this so much. He doesn't treat me like a little girl but he is right, she does live within me. She so needed the spanking and then being held in his arms afterward (I do have quite an imagination).
I don't know exactly how many spanks with the brush I got, somewhere in the neighborhood of about 100 which included the very soft ones in the beginning. But by the end my bottom was red and is still tender.
You may think that it isn't possible to imagine someone holding you tight and cuddling you over the phone. Well, in that case let me remind you of a scene in the movie Miracle on 34th Street, the original one. Kris Kringle explains to Susan, a very wary little girl who does not believe in anything that is not real, that the imagination does exist. He says, "You have heard of the French nation and the (can't remember) nation. Well this is the imagi-nation." So that is how it works for me, I spend a good deal of time in the imagi-nation between spanking and writing.
My brother was right, as he always is, I sooooo needed that spanking. I felt loved, cared about, got some tears out, and have a lovely sensitive bottom right now.
You know, that nation isn't a bad one to visit. And the best part is.....you don't even have to register for a passport.

Sunday, December 2, 2007

Teaching Tim-F/m spanking fiction


Teaching Tim

The coffee shop was fairly quiet for a Friday afternoon. Tim sat alone in a booth and looked at his watch yet again. Only one minute had passed. Damn the time was moving slowly.

He had arrived early for his appointment, hoping to really make a good first impression on the person he was meeting. But it looked as though she was going to be right on time, if not a few minutes late. He drummed his nails on the table, wondering again what he had gotten himself into.

The mission Tim was on had started several months ago. He was intensely interested in spanking, especially if he was the one on the receiving end. There was also a need in his life for discipline and order so the spanking he was seeking was not purely recreational. Towards this end he had browsed various sites and chatted with women but found most wanted to be spanked and not spank him. While he didn’t mind giving the occasional spanking, he much preferred being on the other side of the lap. He found it exciting, stimulating, and intensely erotic. At the age of 28 he really hadn’t had many spankings except the ones he received as a kid, but he certainly felt the need to have more. Besides that, he wasn’t at all proud of some of his behavior lately. Tasks around the house were ignored until they simply had to be done, and then were usually done late at night when he finally got around to it. Some of this was carrying over into his work life as well and that was completely unacceptable. He was in a position of responsibility and, he was, after all, a grown man. Then why wasn’t he acting like one?

He had run into Samantha online about three months earlier. They had chatted pleasantly at first after establishing they were both spankos. Tim had sighed to himself as Samantha explained she was a sub, but his spirits rose as she also explained she did spank male friends who requested she do so. As they chatted he explained his dilemma and what he thought could help him solve it. Unfortunately they lived about 180 miles apart. Although Samantha was sympathetic, she often found herself in similar situations, that were an awfully long trip to give someone a spanking. Tim then suggested something he had already experienced, getting a phone spanking. He explained that he would self spank according to her directions.

There was a long moment of silence and then Samantha stated quietly that, yes that could work. But only under certain conditions. Without Tim asking she listed them for him. He would have to agree to be totally open and honest with her about whatever behavior issues they were dealing with. She would not play twenty questions, he would need to confess. All decisions were hers to make once they agreed to the terms. There would be no hedging, no complaints about unfairness or the agreement would come to an end.

Tim didn’t quite know how to respond, he wanted this but he hardly knew this woman. Sensing his confusion, Samantha suggested they talk a bit more about themselves. Tim had already told Samantha a good deal and she reciprocated. He found out that she was much older than he was. In fact she was twice his age. She was a teacher and had a grown son about Tim’s age.

Suddenly things seemed to be much clearer in his mind. He really liked the idea of being spanked by an older woman. First of all chances are that she would know what she was doing, secondly, it would have more of a disciplinary aspect to it. He agreed to her terms. She asked him if he was really sure about this. And to his surprise he really was and wanted it right now.

Samantha laughed and said, “No not tonight, you need time to think this over but we will set 10:30 on Thursday night for your first session. They exchanged phone numbers and Tim agreed to let Samantha call him.

Then her voice changed. There was no mean or harsh tone to it, just a sternness that had not been there before. “Very well young man, you have told me some of the problems you have been having. So here are the behaviors you are accountable for. First of all there is to be no procrastinating unless you are truly ill or there is a family emergency. Your house will be in order and your projects at work will be completed on time. Secondly, you are welcome to go out with friends on the weekends but if you stay out late enough and drink enough that you cannot meet your goals the next day you will get spanked for that. Is that clear?”

Tim heard himself quietly stating, “Yes ma’am.”

Again that stern voice, “Thursday evening you have your hairbrush and have two pillows in the middle of your bed. And once again I expect total truth.”

Again his quiet, “Yes ma’am.”

“Alright then I will speak to you on Thursday night but we can chat online during the next couple of nights if you like, especially if any questions come up.” She wished him a good night, told him to behave himself and then signed off.

It was hard falling asleep that night wondering how Thursday would go. Over the phone spankings were usually ok but left him wanting more and always wishing there was someone there to hold and caress him.

So for the next few days Tim tried to do what he was supposed to but the bad habits were so ingrained. Laundry was piled everywhere and housework just was left undone. He fell behind on several projects at work because of not focusing his attention where it needed to be.

In the evenings when he chatted with Samantha the conversations were usually friendly and she answered any questions about spanking that he asked. He wasn’t sure how she could give him aftercare over the phone but she assured him she most certainly could and would.
Finally Thursday came just when he had doubted it ever would. At 10:30 the phone rang and true to her word it was Samantha. The stern tone was back. Tim gulped as he listened. “Well young man, you have told me a little about how the week went; now I expect to her the rest before we go any further.”

Tim thought for a minute, “Well I am sort of behind on a few things.”

“There is no sort of behind Tim, you either are or you aren’t.”

“Well it’s not that bad”, he said optimistically.

“I will be the judge of that, please tell me exactly what you are talking about.”

“Well, I have fallen behind on a couple of work projects, and I really haven’t had the time to get my laundry done. But I tried to; really, I just didn’t have the time.”

Samantha’s voice continued in a measured stern tone, “That is pretty close to a lie. There is no trying, either you do it or you don’t. When you set priorities you make time for what needs to be accomplished whether at work or at home. What do you suppose will happen if this behavior continues at work?”

With a somewhat dry mouth Tim answered, “Well I guess I could lose my job, but I always catch up in time. And I am really good at what I do.”

In a softer tone Samantha continued, “I have no doubt you are very good at what you do, but that won’t help if this procrastination doesn’t stop. And a man your age should not have dirty laundry all over his house. That is totally unacceptable.”

Tim gulped, “Well it’s not all over the house, I mean it’s just in the bathroom and bedroom….and I guess some in the living room.”

There was a short silence. “Tim you have broken the agreement we set, isn’t that true?”

“Yes but not a lot”, his mind raced for excuses.

“The amount really doesn’t matter, the actions do. Do you understand what you deserve for this behavior?”

“Yes Ma’am,” he responded, “I deserve to be spanked.” And in spite of the attempt to get out of it, when he finally said it out loud he realized he not only needed it but oh how he wanted it.

Samantha’s voice took on an authoritarian air, “Yes and that is what is about to happen, right now. Do you have your hairbrush and the pillows over your bed?”

Tim felt a small tremble in his stomach. “Yes Ma’am”.
“Very well, you need to remove your clothes and lay down over the pillows with your bottom up as high as you can get it.”

Tim did as instructed. He had been spanked over the phone this way before but somehow this felt different and he wasn’t sure why. He waited for his instructions.

“Young man, I am so disappointed that you have broken our agreement in a way that can jeopardize your job. And that you care so little for how you live that laundry is just thrown down and ignored. Now I am expecting you to follow every direction I give and make every spank count. If they are not hard enough I expect you to tell me so they can be repeated. Is all that understood?”

“Yes, Ma’am.”

“Now you will start with 25 smacks of that hairbrush hard on the center of each cheek. All in a row, not side to side and about 2 seconds between each one. I will be listening and I will want to hear good solid smacks.”

Tim put the phone down on his bed and turned slightly to one side so he could reach more easily. He smacked his bottom as hard as he could. God it stung! Twenty five times and that was only half way. He took a deep breath and started on the next side. For some reason this hurt even worse than the first twenty five. Man was he glad this was almost over.

It was as though Samantha read his mind. When he picked up the phone and told her he had followed her directions her comment was, “You know we have just begun, don’t you?” The next comment, “They sounded solid, were they hard enough?”

“Yes they really sting, they were hard enough.” Tim reached back to rub just as he heard Samantha say, “No rubbing, not yet.”

“Now young man I want you to deliver 25 solid spanks right in the center of your bottom, on the same spot each time, hard and fast.”

Tim groaned, this was going to burn like hell. He put the phone down and began the twenty five hairbrush smacks. One of top of another in a really sensitive spot. His bottom began to burn and sting. He could feel the warmth of it radiating from his skin.

He picked up the phone once more. “Ok Ma’am, I did as you told me.”

Samantha’s voice was soft but intense, “How does it feel Tim?”

He looked at the phone in disbelief, “It hurts, and it stings.”

“Good, then we are getting somewhere. Now you will spank yourself 25 times at the crease of each thigh where it meets your bottom. These are easier to reach and should good and hard. All in a row, not from side to side.”

He picked up the hairbrush reluctantly and began to spank as hard as he could where directed. As the brush made contact he gasped a bit at the sting. This was the worst spot yet. But as he continued he felt the excitement that had been growing since Samantha had called him. It stung like crazy and he was pretty sure it was getting really red, but it was also causing the same reaction he always got when he was spanked, totally turned on.

As he finished he picked up the phone, “I did as you said Ma’am.”

Samantha’s voice was softer, “That’s very good my dear, and how does it feel?”

Tim reached back and touched his very well warmed bottom, “It stings, really it does.”

“Excellent, then you have done just what I asked. Do you think you learned your lesson this evening Tim? Are you ready to make a more substantial commitment to keeping to deadlines and getting your work done?”

“Yes, Ma’am, I will, at least I will try.”

There was a soft laugh at the other end of the phone. “No there is no trying, you either do it or you don’t. And if you don’t you know what to expect don’t you. But for now your slate is clean. I want you to feel me next to you hugging you and gently rubbing lotion on your backside. Can you feel that Tim.”

It was hard to believe but he actually could. He picked up the bottle of lotion by his bed and rubbed some on himself to make the sensation more real. God he was excited.

Samantha’s soft voice continued talking to him, about rubbing his back, rubbing his legs, and how he had done such a very good job tonight. He closed his eyes and his hand reached down to touch himself. Her voice was everywhere. His bottom was stinging but the sensation was exquisite. Before he could stop, talk, or do anything else his brain cleared and he exploded. He gasped into the phone. Tim could practically hear Samantha smiling; she certainly knew what had happened. “See my dear, I told you aftercare was essential no matter where or how you are spanked. Now experience tells me that you are probably more than a little tired by now. And you have work tomorrow. Sleep well; remember the rules and we will talk again soon. But also remember Tim, each time you break the rules the spanking will be more severe.”

They said good night, Tim hung up the phone, and moved the pillows back where they belonged. Oh man that was more than he expected. But he also found himself wanting more. If he could get a spanking like that over the phone, it would have to be so much better in person.
Samantha and Tim had several more phone sessions and each time he expressed his desire to be spanked in person. She kept reminding him of the distance between them and the doubts she had that he really would be happy with an in person meeting. “Remember I am twice your age, on the phone is one thing, but seeing me in person is quite another.”

Tim always disagreed, “Why do you always bring up your age? I don’t care; in fact I like the idea of being spanked by a more mature woman.”

Then at long last during one phone conversation Tim got what he wanted. “Well my dear, I am coming up to your neck of the woods to visit family. If we can work it out I will be happy to spank you, whether it is for discipline or for being really good. That part is up to you.”

The first word burst out of his mouth, “When? When will you be here?”

Samantha laughed and told him of her plans. They talked for a long time figuring out where to meet and here he was waiting in this damn coffee shop for what seemed like forever.

Tim had seen a picture of Samantha so he knew when she walked in the door. She was an older, somewhat attractive woman. And he was so glad to see a smile on her face. She walked right up to his table and held out her hand, “Well Tim, we finally meet.” Her voice was friendly and warm.

They shook hands and she sat down across from him, putting the big canvas tote she was carrying on the seat next to her. “So how are you, its good to finally meet you in person. The picture I saw of you was so far away it was hard to know what you looked like but you are a very nice looking man.”

“Tthanks,” he stammered slightly. “It’s so good to meet you too…finally.” Samantha looked at him very carefully wondering how ready he was for all this. Being a sub/switch, she knew how intense a spanking could get both physically and emotionally. Some people, though, they felt the need were nowhere near prepared for it. They craved it, that was for sure, but it was very different over the phone and in person.

Samantha ordered a cup of coffee and started talking to Tim about all the aspects of his life, his thoughts, anything she could to get a better sense than she had gotten over the phone. Finally she got to the point, “Tim before I ask the next question, are you sure you want to go through with this? Once we get to your apartment and the door shuts the decision is out of your hands.”

Suddenly Tim was much calmer than he had been all morning, “Yes I am very sure. I have no doubts about this at all.”

“Very well then”, and Samantha took on a serious demeanor. She spoke very softly and intensely even though no one was seated near them. “So Tim, how has your behavior been since your last discipline spanking? And please no hedging, no I tried, none of that, just total honesty.”

Tim took a swallow of coffee, “Well, it hasn’t been terrible but it hasn’t been great either.” At the look on Samantha’s face he started again. “What I meant to say is I have broken some of the rules. I have been late with three projects at work, and I finally got my place really picked up last night because I knew you were coming. But”, he said hopefully, “I haven’t stayed out late drinking even one night.”

Samantha looked at him thoughtfully, “Well I guess we both know that it is a discipline spanking then.” She looked at Tim’s crestfallen face, “One rule that isn’t broken does not fix two broken ones and you already knew that before you told me.” The look on his face confirmed what she had said. “I think Tim we had better get going.” She slid out of the booth, took her bag and waited for him. Tim put the money for their coffee on the table and stood to walk Samantha to the door. They walked in silence. He had told her that he lived very close to the coffee shop so it would just be a short walk.

As he opened the coffee shop door he offered to take her bag for her, it looked kind of bulky. “Thanks Tim, it is a little heavy,” she handed it to him.

“Wow, you aren’t kidding, what do you have in here, bricks?”

“No not bricks, just implements I might need for a very naughty boy.”

Tim almost lost his voice, “Oh”, was all he could think of to say. He looked over at Samantha walking next to him. She was so short, for some reason she sounded taller over the phone. Actually she didn’t really look like she could spank anyone very effectively. He was sure this was going to be one big disappointment. Besides he often wondered if being older meant she wouldn’t be strong enough to really make a difference in the strength of spanking a younger man.

Samantha looked at him silently and smiled to herself, she knew what was going through that busy brain. He had questioned her many times about her spanking abilities. Well, there was no substitute for experience and he was about to have that. They had reached his building

Time unlocked the door to his apartment and stood aside to let Samantha enter first. She carefully looked over the very clean and nicely furnished apartment. “Oh Tim this is really lovely, a very nice place.”

“Thanks Samantha” and he went to put down the bag.

“No my dear, the bag goes in the bedroom and from this point on, its Ma’am.”

The bag was lugged into the bedroom and Samantha followed Tim. “Can I get you anything”, he offered putting the bag down next to the bed.

“No Tim, nothing at all”, suddenly the stern, quiet voice he knew from the phone was there. “I think its time we take care of business.” She sat on the edge of the bed and crossed her legs. For some reason Tim had not noticed until that point that she was dressed all in black. She wore simple black knit dress, black stockings with seams up the back, and black patent heels. Her auburn hair was layered and lay in waves near her face. She looked extremely serious.

Samantha immediately took charge. “Tim, please take off your slacks right now.”

At this point Tim was both so excited and somewhat worried that he could think of nothing but obeying her. “Yes Ma’am.” And he did as she asked. He folded his slacks and laid them on the bed and stood in front of Samantha.

She opened her bag and began removing the contents to lie on the bed next to her. Tim watched in somewhat horrified fascination as she removed a hairbrush, a wicked looking bath brush, a leather strap, a thin wooden paddle, a riding crop, and a small thin clear plastic cane. She smiled slightly, “You never know what you are going to need. Now my dear let me explain a few things. First of all I expect complete obedience. Arguing will only get you a longer spanking. Secondly you may wiggle, squirm and kick your legs, however if you try to get away from me, I will put you in the corner and paddle you red. And that won’t count towards your real spanking. Since this is not a first offense it will be a more severe spanking than I have been able to give you over the phone. And, Tim, there is no safe word. If something is wrong other than with your backside you just tell me. I will know when you have had enough. Now is there anything you have to say for yourself before we begin?”

Tim clutched his hands together in front of him. Suddenly he felt like a very naughty boy caught by his mother. “Yes, Ma’am... I am really sorry for not obeying and, and well I need to know something else.”

Samantha looked up at him, “Yes Tim?”

His voice became hushed, “When I get spanked I get, well, excited, I can’t help it. Is that going to be upsetting for you?”

Samantha looked at him in perfect understanding, “No I won’t be the least bit upset, it’s perfectly normal.” She uncrossed her legs. “And now young man, over my lap right now.”

The authority in her voice brooked no refusal. He lay down over her lap. Once again he wondered if such a little person could give an effective spanking. He didn’t have to wonder long. “Tim I am going to start spanking you with my hand to warm up your bottom, then I will take down your briefs. From this point on you may beg, plead, whatever you like, all decisions are mine.” At that point and before he could utter Yes Ma’am her hand began its descent. She smacked hard and rapidly from one side to the other. While it stung it wasn’t really anything Tim couldn’t handle and again he had his doubts about her abilities. She spanked with her hand for 2 or 3 minutes, stopped and hooked her finger in the waistband of his briefs and pulled them down. Suddenly things changed. He felt so exposed. His briefs were pulled down to his knees. She briefly rubbed both cheeks. “Yes nice and pink, just perfect.”

Tim felt a slight shudder run through his body at her touch. The spanking then began again on his bare skin. Smack! Her hand landed flat across the middle of his bottom again and again. “Shit” this stung. “Hey, hey that really hurts”.

Samantha spoke calmly as she continued spanking, “Yes you are right spankings hurt. Tim I am spanking you for your continued problems especially with procrastination at work. That is nothing (smack) to (smack) be fooling (smack) around with.” He winced at each crack of her hand.

She stopped momentarily and the next sensation was a cool piece of wood moving in circles on his bottom. “Today I hope this has an effect on your behavior so next time I don’t have to punish you.” With that he felt the wood lift and the next time he felt it, there was nothing cool about it. It came smacking down hard on the center of each cheek over and over. The stinging pain was unbelievably intense.

Over and over it descended on his bare skin, “Owwwww hey isn’t that enough?” God why did he ever question this woman’s ability to spank. His feet kicked without his even realizing it. “Pleasee I won’t break any more rules, I promise.” Anything to stop that paddle.

Samantha stopped and rubbed her hand over his skin. She could feel the heat but knew they were certainly not done. Tim shivered as her hand rubbed over the punished area. Oh good, she was finished. “Tim stand up please.” He reached for his briefs. “No you leave them where they are.”

“But, I am nearly naked.” And he watched in silent shock as Samantha took the pillows from the head of his bed and place them in the middle nearest to her. “Lay down over those with your bottom up high” she smacked him soundly, “Right now.”

“Yyyes Ma’am,” She wasn’t done, what the hell was she going to do now. Since he was on the bed he could see all her tools of the trade and almost got up when he saw her pick up the bath brush. Samantha put her hand in the middle of his back and pushed him gently down.

“Now you don’t want to be paddled in the corner do you?”

“Nnnno, no way, “Tim wanted to be sure he was understood. He gritted his teeth and waited. Samantha ran the bath brush, bristle side down over his bottom. It stung but felt good too. In fact he could feel his excitement rising. How the hell could he be excited when it hurt this much.

“Spread your legs Tim,” Samantha spoke sternly. “Right now and no arguing.”

Tim could feel rebellion within him but no way did he want more of that paddle while standing in the corner. He slowly spread his legs apart. God he felt vulnerable. Everything was visible to her. He laid his head down on his hands.

Samantha noted this, checked his backside once more. “Tim I am going to spank you with the bath brush on your bottom and at the tops of your thighs. I do believe you will agree to do a much better job at work on your projects. I also believe this will give you a day or two for remembering the lesson.” With that she lifted the bath brush and he knew he wasn’t going to feel the bristles this time. The first smack made him yelp even though he tried to hold it back. She spanked ten times in a row on each side of his bottom. The spanks were hard and had about two seconds between them.

He squeezed his eyes shut tight; no spanking had ever hurt like this. He felt her pulling up the right side of his bottom exposing the crease between it and his thigh. He grabbed the bedspread knowing what was coming. CRACK! The bath brush landed on the most sensitive spot of his bottom. “OHHh NOOO please stopppp”, he couldn’t help himself but it had no effect on Samantha whatsoever. Ten times the bath brush landed until she moved to the other side and repeated the performance. By that point each spank almost took Tim’s breath away. Finally she stopped.

Softly she spoke to him, “So young man, have you learned your lesson? You certainly have a well spanked bottom.”

“Oh God yes Ma’am, I have truly I have.” Although now that she had stopped and was rubbing the punished skin of his bottom with her hand, the pain was becoming somewhat exquisite in its intensity. Why the hell did he always get turned on by this or even want it. He knew he was in for a day or two of sitting very carefully but he could not deny she had given him exactly what he needed and wanted.

He felt her sit down on the bed next to him and there was the soft voice her remembered from the phone spankings. “Now then Tim, you have a clean slate”, she rubbed his back, “and all is forgiven.” The rubbing was in circular motions and then he felt coolness on his bottom. She began rubbing in a soothing lotion. It stung for a moment and then felt incredibly good. “There now you are my good boy aren’t you?” He felt his excitement growing by the moment. Samantha paid no attention and continued her care of his bruised backside. She leaned over him and gave him a warm hug, whispering in his ear, “I expect much better behavior from you from this point on young man.”

The whisper was more than he could take with all the rubbing and caressing. His body exploded and he went limp over the pillows. “You alright Tim”, Samantha asked in her soothing voice.
“Yes Ma’am”, he replied exhausted and totally relaxed.

She laughed softly, “Punishment is over my dear, you can call me Samantha now. In fact if I ever get a chance to give you that Good behavior spanking you can call me Samantha throughout.”

Tim turned and looked at her. A Good Behavior spanking? “Hey Samantha what’s the difference. I mean this hurt like hell but was pretty amazing.” He rubbed his backside and winced. “I honestly didn’t think you had it in you. I was wrong, that’s for sure. But what could you possibly do to make it better than this.

Samantha looked at him with a big smile, “Why Tim, to find out you will have to behave yourself won’t you.”

He rolled his eyes and she patted his backside gently, “Believe me my dear it will be worth the effort.”

Tim thought for a moment. Damned if he didn’t believe her.

Amatuer or Pro?


I had a very interesting conversation with a friend about spanking. It was a spanko friend and we were discussing our favorite subject. This friend is aware of my feelings about being a switch but not a Domme in any way. We also discussed my willingness to spank my female friend. At this point my friend offered the opinion that I could make a very good living charging for spanking men and/or women. After a moment of shocked silence I burst into laughter. I assure you this thought had never entered my mind.
No matter how much I needed to be spanked I can't imagine paying someone to do it. I am not criticizing people who choose to make their living this way or those who are comfortable seeking out this kind of spanking experience. Its just not me. I have to feel a connection to the person spanking me or the person I am spanking. At the party I did politely refuse any gentleman that I wasn't truly comfortable talking to and getting to know. And that was for play. I can't imagine going to a stranger that I paid to discipline me.
So I am asking your opinion. How do you feel about the topic of professional spankers? Could you imagine yourself either doing that or seeking it out? Curious minds want to know....actually I am just interested in how others react to this considering my initial reaction.
Of course the fantasy of a Spanking Salon is a lovely one. Different rooms for different tastes and inclinations. But in my mind it is a fantasy, not one I would ever want to try in real life.
Although it certainly would be a more interesting and lucrative job than my current part time internet job. And for sure it would pay more than my writing or my disability income. Hmmm maybe this deserves more thought. (Big Wicked Grins)

Saturday, December 1, 2007

Switching and More


I realized recently that I never posted about my experiences with not only switching to being a spanker as well as a spankee, but providing disciplinary spanking for a female friend. Despite the rather whimsical picture, I don't spank her for play and I doubt that I would. But I have disciplined her in real life and long distance as well.

To be honest I was doubtful about my ability to do this effectively at first. After all she was used to being spanked by men, she had been disciplined and was accountable to one of the men I was. I knew what his spankings were like first hand. Could I do an effective job?

We decided to leave the spanking for the last day of the party so it would not ruin any of the party for her. As I have said before, I cannot do the "harsh" spanking thing nor do I want any part of that when I am spanked. However, what she had done really called for a serious spanking. Its not important to tell exactly what she had done but I did take my responsibility very seriously. So before I ever got to the party I had been really thinking about what I would do.

I had decided, and she knew before hand, that I would ask her to remove her clothing. There was no sexual reason for this but to add to her vulnerability. She stood before me and told me what she had done and that she certainly deserved this. Now we did have one other complication. The day before she had hurt herself and I, in fact, was questioning even spanking her at all. I am not a torturer. But she had recovered enough by the morning. But one plan had to be changed. Initially I was going to restrain her arms and legs to help her hold a position, she has difficulty doing this when being spanked hard. But due to what had happened to her I could not justify putting any restraint on her.

After we discussed what had happened and I had told her why this was so dangerous and so deserving of punishment, I had her lay face down on the bed for the first part of the spanking. I am not much of an advocate of deciding how many spanks with each implement I am giving ahead of time. I believe it should be judged by the person's body language and the condition of the skin you are punishing.

I used several implements but wanted to be sure I did not leave bruising. I do remember her telling me after the first few that I spanked harder than our mutual mentor. I stayed next to her and talked to her throughout, made sure she kept focused on why this was happening, and switched implements from time to time making sure her backside was very well punished. When I felt her bottom had enough I had her turn over. For very specific reasons I also was going to give her a frontal spanking. I used my hand for this, I wanted to make sure there were no injuries. At this point I also sat where I could make sure the injury she had remained still and didn't get jerked around as she responded to being spanked. So we improvised but it worked.

There was also a point in the beginning of the spanking when I used Ben Gay inside her bottom and I knew she still felt the ache from that.

When all was finished I hugged her and I do know she understands that I care about her very much as a friend. To be honest at this point she is much more a treasured part of my self created family.

I made sure she got the kind of aftercare that is essential after a serious spanking including rubbing the right type of lotion on her skin.

Since that time I have punished her over the phone by having her self administer spankings. It makes me feel very good to know I can help her with certain issues. I also get the kick out of helping her with classes she is taking, makes me feel so good to be in teacher mode again.

I also want to point out that even though she does not punish me she is more than willing to be there for me as a friend. She is always there with advice and care. Our friendship has deepened throughout this experience. My "older brother" tells me it is my maternal instincts that lead me to be comfortable disciplining others with love and care. I am assuming it is true. Part of it is also that I know how I feel when I need to be spanked for something I have done or not done. I need it even if at the moment it is happening I am not thrilled. So it is a privilege to have someone trust me to do the same for them.

Now does this mean I don't want to play? OH NO WAY! In fact it was pointed out to me recently that the number of discipline spankings I get has gone way down. Which tells me it works, at least for me. I also hope it is working for my dear friend.

But play, good girl, sensual, and therapeutic spankings will always be there and part of my life. I wouldn't give it up for anything. I don't have to be bad to get what feels so good. Neither does my wonderful friend. And I did feel very good, she said later I had given her a sound spanking and she felt that she would not repeat the error again. What more could a maternal woman ask for?