In the post prior to this one I posted a quiz on spanking positions that was developed by Bonnie at My Bottom Smarts. Well the quizz was right on, I love being otk better than anything else. And the best of all possible positions is when he sits on a bed or a couch and I am over his knee, one or both. There are certain reasons for this and I wonder if it is the same for many of you as well regardless of whether or not you are spanker or spankee.1. The bed or couch provides enough body support so I don't feel like I am hanging in mid air and wondering if I am going to fall off his lap. I like to focus my attention on other sensations.
2. The intimacy of our two bodies touching while the spanking is going on is amazing. Now I am not discussing punishment, so if we are both undressed it is truly an incredible experience.
3. I love having his arm around my waist, holding me firmly. I am not sure what it is about that feeling but it is wonderful and so reassuring.
4. It is easy to switch implements and still stay connected. If the spanker raises or lowers a leg it presents your bottom in different ways for different effects.
5. If I have the body support of his lap plus the bed or couch, he can use his hands to touch other places, spank with one hand, touch with the other, oh many possibilities.
6. When I switch and I give the spankings, I like to give at least part of it otk so the other person feels that connection and I feel connected to them. Many times if I am spanking a man I can't do the whole spanking over the knee because he is so much taller than I am, that I can't use all the implements properly.
7. Now really, does anything feel as amazing as having your spanked bottom rubbed while you are still over his knee.
8. If it happens to be a discipline spanking I don't feel as alone if I am being held on his lap.
9. He can not only see but feel your body responses to the spanking and have a really good sense of when to slow down and speed up. It also helps judge whether the spanks are hard enough or too hard.
10. Its tradition, spankings over a knee are tradition, everyone deserves a lovely otk at least once in awhile.
Does this mean I don't like other types of spankings? Of course it doesn't. Nope I am a hard wired spanko and love spanking and being spanked. But I guess I am a traditional kind of girl and that over the lap with a hand, then an implement is the hottest form or hot bottom spanking there is for me.
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