Now maybe cats are willing to put up with this but I think it is the silliest idea in the world. Yes, if I am ordered into the corner by someone I have agreed to have discipline me, I will go. But that will probably be the last time he disciplines me unless we can come to an agreement about this. I know I sound like a terrible submissive but I really believe that discipline is about caring and compassion. It is loving. You don't send someone you love away from you when they are being disciplined. I truly believe you hold them close and let them know how well loved they are. I truly believe that a good lecture serves the purpose most give for pre spanking corner time. They tell you that it gives you time to comtemplate what you have done. Believe me when I am hearing that strict, quiet voice lecturing me and questioning me on my behavior I am totally focused on what I did. In fact, I usually start to tear up about this point.
As far as post spanking corner time goes, once you are spanked and forgiven, why would you need to be in a corner. Where you need to be is in some one's arms who gives a damn about you and what happens to you. No, its not always a sexual relationship, but there is nothing wrong with affection between a mentor and mentee.
Now, as a switch, I am no hypocrite, I don't put anyone in a corner except for two situations. One is if they tell me they really feel its an important part of the discipline mind set for them, then I give them time in the corner before spanking them. The other situation I have never had to use. Since I am 5'3" tall, the men I have disciplined have all been quite a bit taller than me. I always tell them WAY before the fact that if they try to get away or fight with me, they will find themselves in the corner being paddled. Of course that paddling would be in addition to any discipline they had coming. No one has ever pushed to see if I meant it.
The only other time I even consider corners is for scenes or role plays but that is for another post. Right now I have a story to finish for a very important person and the second part of Caryn and Alexander's evening adventure for all the important people here.
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