Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Happy Halloween

This is a picture from the net, not anyone I know but I thought it looked like a very entertaining Halloween party.

Since I have no trick or treaters and I really am a bit old to be out of doors in costume, I thought I would treat you to my experience with caning at the spanking party. Since caning used to be on my list of what I would never allow it is noteworthy to me.

It was an amazing experience. Please keep in mind this was not for discipline but play at a party. The gentleman had been recommended by every bottom that had ever played with him. He looked like a kindly grandfather and, in fact, his demeanor was pretty much as he seemed.

He did start by warming up my bare bottom with several different straps. Since it was Saturday night I was wearing my costume. I hope I will be sent a picture of it so I can post it. So my sheer long black skirt and my black and gold spiderweb cape were tossed up over my back. Interestingly enough everyone I played with seemed to enjoy my thigh high lace stockings. They were well worth the expense.

After my bottom was nice and warm he started the caning with a bunch of thin, rattan canes. All his canes were rattan and well oiled so there was little danger of splintering. He started by rubbing the cane bundle over my bottom. He then drew back(not completely)and gave me a stroke on one side and then another on the other side. It was a stingy sensation. He asked how many more I might like. I asked for five more on each side. He was very careful where he laid his strokes. It was a wonderful sensation. Then came a short time of rubbing before moving on to the next bundle of thin canes which had a smaller number. This had a bit more sting to it. I loved it as I had the first one.

This continued throught two more bundles, the last one was three and I began to feel the sting much more keenly. After a session of rubbing, which I found very sensual he picked up one of the single canes. He did tell me this probably would sting more than the bundles did. Once again he was not using overhand strokes but rather using his wrist to spank with a sharp sting but not meant to cause cutting or damage.

I loved it and after the first two strokes asked for six more and then two more sets of six. After that we both decided my bottom had enough. After all it had been soundly spanked a number of times before the caning. He rubbed my bottom soothingly. I rewarded his efforts by giving him a candy cane and a big hug.

Oh as for positioning he had me lay over pillows on the bed on a diagonal so he could move from side to side.

While I will always be sure anyone who canes me knows what they are doing, I don't think I will fear caning again. Of course if it were discipline that is a different story. I did have two other gentlemen use canes on my bottom. One was very interesting. He used two small canes at the same time. Wow!

Monday, October 29, 2007

A Treasure of a Weekend


This will be a short post, I am still exhausted. Oh my what a weekend. I not only made friends with lovely like minded people but with implements I had never met before either.
I will most certainly share my first time caning, experiences with nipple clamps, tawses, lexan paddles and the list goes on. Yes, I also got spanked in the social room in front of others as well. Before I say anything else I want to emphasize that no one pushed me into anything I did not want to do. Everything was completely consensual and the men I played with ALWAYS asked before they did anything or used anything.
Not only did I enjoy each experience but I also learned how to use toys I had not used before. Since I am a switch I really appreciated that. I played with switches, tops, and bottoms. In between play sessions there was plenty of time for socializing and getting to know people.
I will post more detail, since I consider this a sort of journal and I want to make sure I always remember my first party which contained many firsts as well. In fact the lovely colorful shadeson my bottom are still there and oh my, what a lovely achy, tingly backside.
There was also an amazing diversity of aspects of the lifestyle people were into. Now you may not believe this but although I did have to ask for a spanking I never had to put an X on the spot, they all seemed to know where it was. Imagine that!

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Party Til You Drop


Well I am having the time of my life! I have met friendly, kind people who are all concerned with people having a good time, especially the first timers.
I wasn't here a half hour before I got my first spanking. I have played with a number of switches so we could trade off and both enjoy ourselves. I have a sore but very happy bottom.
As you can see in the picture my roomie and I are having a pillow fight. Wonder if you can guess which is which.

Friday, October 26, 2007

Party Time!!

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Well just to let you know I am in Chicago and far more nervous than I ever dreamt I would be. I am not nervous about being spanked, just meeting people I don't know and hoping they like me enough to chat with me and, of course, smack my backside.
Thanks to all of you who commented on the spanking I am giving my friend. Yes, you are right it is a very serious responsibility and I consider it as such. As for directions I was given suggestions but told that all other decisions were literally in my hands. I consider that a tremendous gift of trust by all involved.
The other thing that I think is important is that when I switch I tend to feel more maternal towards the person I am spanking. So many times women spankers are portrayed in such a mean and negative light. That is not nor could it ever be me.
In any case, wish me luck!!

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Another new experience


First of all thank you for the kind and caring comments so many of you left while I was pulling myself together. Sometimes in a long distance relationship, such as the one I am in, it can lead to misunderstandings. This is what happened to me and I came crashing down. I simply could not write and for that matter thinking even became challenging. I decided it was time to get over it since I am going to the Crimson Moon party this Friday. I want this to be a great experience and not a chance to mope around a hotel room. I am also sharing a hotel room with a wonderful online friend. I have been so looking forward to meeting her and that leads me to my next new experience.

She and I share the same "older brother". She is as accountable for her behavior to him as I am. He always feels a real time spanking is better than a self administered spanking over the phone or computer. This is especially true for serious issues.

My friend has a very serious spanking due and I was asked to adminster it. Now I am a switch but have never spanked another woman. Since I do know how much more effective a "real time" spanking is, I agreed to do this. I should say that my friend totally agreed to it or I would not be comfortable doing this.

So I will be going to my first party, playing with people I have just met, spanking and being spanked, and giving a disciplinary spanking to a very good friend. You have to admit that is a lot of firsts for one weekend.

Right now my goal is keeping my attitude positive and just getting over the misunderstanding that laid me low.

I will also keep you up to date during the party since I am bringing my laptop with me. I, as always, am interested in hearing what you have to say about the experiences I will be going through.

And, by the way, my friend understands that our friendship does not assure her of an easy spanking. In fact it is quite the opposite. What she did put her at serious risk and I want to make sure it never happens again. So does she.

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Its too hard right now


I will be back but for awhile I just need to be kind of alone. Things are just too hard in my life right now and I can't focus on blogging. So please forgive me for taking some time off. I'll eventually get my act together and be back.

Hugs,
Purple Angel

Monday, October 15, 2007

Caryn and Alexander-Part 2-M/f spanking fiction


The lovely glow of Caryn's red cheeks absolutely captivated Alexander. Caryn was moaning and squirming as Alex's hands caressed and rubbed her entire bottom, between her legs, and down each thigh. He leaned over and gently kissed all the warm red areas he had just created.
Caryn's gasps filled him with delight but he wasn't quite ready to fill her the way she desperately wanted him to. Softly he whispered into her ear, "Come with me love, stand up and come with me." His whisper sent chills down her spine.
She looked up at him, the passion in her eyes visible even in the depth of the park's darkness. "Oh God Alex, please, I need you so."
A sharp smack to her bottom and a stern whisper, "Caryn, I won't ask again, stand up." Knowing she would be on shaky legs, he helped he to her feet. She leaned against him and felt him pulling her skirt down to her ankles. "Step out Caryn, I will hold you sweetheart." He once again saw momentary panic and knew her mind was trying to deal with wanting to please him and realizing the possibility of discovery. She hid her face in his shoulder and stepped out of the skirt, leaving her in just her long purple blouse, black lace stockings and black heels. Alexander put two fingers under her chin and tipped her face up, "Do you have any idea how beautiful you are to me, any idea at all?" Her gorgeous smile was all the thanks he needed. He picked up the blanket off the ground and walked Caryn to a nearby group of trees. He covered the front of her with the blanket so nothing would be scratched by the bark and told her to stand against the tree, spread her legs, and put her arms around it.
This was the man she trusted with her life, it did not occur to her to refuse even for a moment or worry that somehow he would harm her. She leaned into the tree and put her arms around the trunk, feeling only the roughness on her forearms and hands. The rest of her body was leaning against the blanket. Caryn could feel the coolness of the night air on her very warm bottom and knew Alex was standing and admiring the way she looked, so very vulnerable to whatever he chose to do. His hands rubbed from the top of her neck, down her spine and caressed every inch of her backside. Gently he let his fingers wander into the middle of her two cheeks. Caryn gasped and could feel her nails dig into the tree.
Suddenly Alex let go of her and she heard him step back. The next sound was one she recognized well. Her legs quivered and she could feel excitement course through her. He was pulling his belt out of the loops in his slacks. She pressed her face against the blanket and waited for the rhythmic sound and feel of leather caressing her skin with a stinging massage. He did not make her wait long.
Alex stood to the side of Caryn so she could see him and know he was right there with her, loving every moment as she was. She felt him rub the belt against her skin and closed her eyes as he pulled it away.
The first snap on her skin drew a gasp from her. But before long the play of rhythm and sound had her breathing deeply and Alex saw her body submit to the messages her mind was sending her. He was careful to never let it get beyond pleasure. The spanks with the strap could not be in one spot over and over but had to move up and down with a rhythm she could get lost in. As he watched he waited for the moment to stop. Caryn's long hair started to fall farther down her back as her neck relaxed and he knew she was lost to the moment. The belt was dropped as he caught Caryn in his arms and she let go of the tree, falling against him.
In his arms Caryn rubbed against him sensously letting him feel every part of her body's excitement. He held her with one hand, grabbed the blanket with the other and tossed the blanket to the ground. Both of his hands massaged the skin he had just strapped and lightly carressed every mark he had left. "Alex please," was all he needed to hear. Now it was her turn.
He helped her down to the blanket on her hands and knees. He knelt behind her, and she heard his slacks being unzipped. She turned her head so she could see him in the darkness behind her and watch as he approached and rubbed against her. She could feel his hardness against her and knew he would not make her wait. Once again he leaned down and kissed the hot, red beautiful skin his strap had stung. It was an exquisite feeling, so intense and then, without further warning he entered her and began to move. He held her waist so every thrust brought his thighs in contact with her well spanked bottom. As he continued his hands moved up her sides to her breasts as he gently pinched her already hardened nipples.
Caryn was soon gasping and knew she could not hold out any longer. Alex could feel her muscles quaking and leaned over her. "Let go sweetheart, let go....god you are so wonderful", and as he spoke all of it came together....the spanking, the love making, just the nearness of Alex and her body exploded with the force of all she felt and loved.
Her body went limp on the ground and it seemed she heard Alex's voice from a long distance say her name very gently. Slowly she came back from the gorgeous place she had been. She felt a warm, loving hand rubbing her back. She slowly turned over and looked into the face she loved more than anyone else in the world. He was the one she depended on to be there and he always was. Alex knew her as well as she knew him. She reached up her hand to push a lock of hair off his forehead. Her voice was husky with the passion she felt, the wonderful sting of her backside still keeping her in touch with those feelings. "Oh thank you Alex, this was amazing, how did you know..."
He smiled and kissed her lips. "How did I know about your outdoor fantasy? Hmm let's see, you have read that one that was posted on the internet god knows how many times. Every time I walk by you are reading it." Well that might explain it but there was still a twinkle in his eye.
She looked at him questioningly waiting for the rest. He smiled lovingly, "And really love we are going to have to do something about all this talking in your sleep." Caryn's face turned as red as her glowing backside. "So my dear did you enjoy tonight's concert?"
Loving arms reached around his neck, "Oh yes I did Alex, every single stroke made my body sing." She knew she would remember this concert in the park for the rest of her life. Some music is meant to never be forgotten.

Sunday, October 14, 2007

Caryn and Alexander-part 1-M/f spanking


The concert had been beautiful, an outdoor venue, jazz under the stars. Alexander and Caryn had sat next to each other saying very little, but letting the music flow over them and awaken thoughts and feelings in their mind.

They sat on a blanket in the soft summer twilight. The air was warm and fragrant as was Caryn. She sat close enough to Alexander that their arms touched triggering an almost electrical impulse between the two of them. Her hand rested on his thigh, which she knew he enjoyed.

Alexander gazed softly at the woman next to him. Her mid length black sheer skirt and deep purple low cut blouse were perfect. He had chosen them himself. He felt deep stirrings within knowing that underneath her lovely and sophisticated clothing, she wore nothing at all. Beneath that surface layer she was completely available to him. The touch of her hand on his thigh reinforced that concept. She was his.

At the end of the concert, he leaned over and whispered in her ear..."Caryn, can you feel me touching you. Feel me running my hands over your breasts and down your skin."

Her eyes closed slowly, and a small shudder ran through her. Oh how she felt the exquisite sensations he described.

He leaned over and kissed her ear lightly, taking the lobe in his teeth for a moment. "Ah and now it is time to go."

Caryn gazed adoringly, "Oh yes Alex, thank you this has been beautiful but oh yes it is most certainly time to go." She smiled and took his outstretched hand as he helped her up.

As he watched, Caryn folded the blanket they had been sitting on, it was a great pleasure for him to watch her do the smallest tasks.

As they walked from the park, he gently rubbed the back of her neck and then took her hand, "I am so glad you enjoyed yourself my dear, you deserved a lovely night out." His voice dropped, "I am so pleased with my extremely good and obedient girl."

Caryn's face glowed pink,"Thank you Alex, it does give me such satisfaction knowing I have pleased you." The words he had spoken to her had a magical effect as all his words did. These made her insides quiver and shot arrows of pleasure through the most sensitive parts of her.

Holding her hand he led Caryn to a darker and more remote section of the park. While traffic sounds were noticeable they were muted and the area was deserted. Alex pulled Caryn to him so suddenly that she dropped the blanket. He embraced her and let his hands slide up under the blouse over he soft, smooth skin. "Oh God, Alex," she could hardly breathe the sensation was so exquisite.

Once again the insistent whisper against her ear, "What do you want Caryn, what do you need?"

"Please Alex, I want and need you, always you." Her body responded to his voice and touch. She could feel the hot, wet fluid between her legs beginning to drench her. Her clit throbbed with sensation.

Alexander felt the hardness growing within. He let go of Caryn's hand and spread out the ,recently folded, blanket in the deepest shadows behind a tree.
He lay down on his side, his head on on upraised arm. He motioned for Caryn to lay next to him.

A small stab of panic gripped her, even though no one was nearby, they were still outside and visible to anyone that chose to walk through this section of the park.

"Caryn", Alex's insistent whisper was telling not asking. She gracefully knelt beside him on the blanket. "Show me your appreciation my love, my cock needs attention and only your attention will do."

At his words another spurt of wetness drenched her lips and upper thighs. She breathlessly leaned over, opened his slacks and released his hard cock from its prison. They had known each other long enough that certain communication required no words at all. She took a moment to lovingly stroke the cock that gave her such incredible joy and then leaned over to caress it once again with her mouth.

As small shock waves ran through her she thoroughly licked with her tongue up and down the length of his cock before moving to his balls. She noted with satisfaction that his eyes had closed and his breathing altered as she ministered to him. Her tongue swirled around the very tip and she gently let her teeth graze over it. Caryn knew what pleased her man and, oh, it pleased her so to be allowed to provide it.

The taste of his fluid at the very tip signaled to her to change her attentions. She took his cock into her mouth and began to suck on it moving it in and out, taking the full length of him into her. He moaned in pleasure as her lips tightly held his cock within her mouth and the sucking was bringing him closer to exploding. One of his hand wandered to her long hair and he held it within his fist, a reminder of who was always in control.

The acknowledgment of his dominance was the increase in Caryn's pace. She could feel her own body's responses to the excitement flowing from Alex into her. His hand in her hair was the reminder and connection she always needed and desired.

Alex felt himself at the edge of control. Caryn always amazed him at her total willingness to give him such delight and what was also extremely moving was her obvious pleasure in doing so. It was never formulaic, each time was a new and fabulous experience. The variance in rhythm and speed, what she did with tongue, teeth, and lips never failed to bring him to the edge and over.

As her attention to him continued Caryn felt the trembling in his legs that signaled what she had been hoping to achieve. Her pace increased and within moments he exploded into her mouth as she continued to lick and suck until he was relaxed.

His breathing calm once again, Alexander glanced at Caryn and noted the soft look of delight on her face, "Thank you Alex for letting me please you, I so love doing it."

"Caryn my dear, you do so well know how to please me, now my dear lay out beside me on your stomach."

Her immediate response to this command brought a smile to his face.

She lay on her stomach, her legs spread as she knew he would want and her head pillowed softly on her hands.

His hands moved under her black skirt lifting it slowly, delighting in her sharp gasp. Alexander could feel the evidence of her growing excitement drenching the area between her legs, he caressed the smoothly shaven skin and stroked her clit softly.

Caryn softly but intently requested what she most needed, "Oh Alex, spank me please, hard, oh I need it so very much."

Alex smiled at the intent voicing of the request. He ran his hands lovingly over the smooth white mounds mimicking the moonlight above.

Without a word he moved close to sit by Caryn's side. His arm tightened around her waist and as her body tensed, he raised his hand and delivered a resounding smack on her right cheek. The left one was immediately given the same treatment. He began rhythmically spanking her covering every inch of her bottom.

As the heat of her bottom and the sting increased Caryn arched her backside up to meet Alexander's insistent spanks. She moaned and occasionally yelped as both pain and pleasure intermingled.

Alex stopped spanking and began rubbing the reddened skin, "Caryn you are the most lovely shade my dear." His fingers traced down through the crack between her cheeks and into the dewy moisture now coating her lips and thighs.

Her bottom stung with a glorious fire. She knew this was far from over.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

How Submissively Devoted Are You







How slavishly devoted are you?




Submissive: Though you realize you are far from perfect you work toward being the submissive that your partner desires. You have ideas of your own that you will express and you have a certain amount of freedom in your day-to-day life. There are times when the yoke of submission begins to chafe but overall you do a good job in your submissive role.
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Being a switch I was surprised a bit at the outcome of this quiz. But it is true, my feelings have always been of the more submissive type. However, I think my switching becomes important because my partner desires it. So in a way it is somewhat submissive. I don't know if this makes sense. In fact my "older brother" has asked that I help out disciplining one of the other women he mentors. She also happens to be a friend of mine. I will be writing about our experiences together as well. center>
If you take the quiz I would love to know your outcome.

Friday, October 12, 2007

Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are!!



Well now as you can see you are most welcome to enjoy a cup of coffee here at Spankful Delight anytime you like. I do enjoy my blog and others on this subject near and dear to my heart (and my backside).

I truly want to thank all of you who drop by, I have over 7000 hits. But I do have one question. Where is everybody? I have looked everywhere....behind the posts, under the pictures, next to the links, and over in the labels. Just can't seem to find you all. It would be so lovely if you could leave a comment from time to time and let me know you have been here. Those comments are so appreciated whether you are agreeing or disagreeing with me. Doesn't matter, I want to hear from you.

Doesn't matter if you are DD, D/s, BDSM, Tops, Bottoms, Switches, or just spanker/spankees who love to play. Please step out from behind that secret curtain and let me know what you think.

Now don't be afraid, everything at this site is consensual only. And it would be great if you wanted to leave a comment with your experiences. Why being here is almost as good as a trip to Disneyland!

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Hope to hear from you soon!
Purple Angel

Thursday, October 11, 2007

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BRATS POEM
So baby , what if I stomp my foot ?
And cross my arms ,
Scowl at you ?
Will you turn away ?
Or will you see it through ?

And if I ignore what you say ,
With a toss of my hair ,
Mumble under my breath .
Will you turn away ?
Or will my bottom be bare ?

What if I should break ,
Every rule that we've said .
Toss it up in your face ,
Will you turn away ?
Or turn my backside bright red ?

See I need to know ,
If you'll take a stand .
Step up to the challenge .
Because if you turn away ,
They'll be another willing hand .

Halloween Warm Up Poem


Halloween, a night for treats,
Kids out asking for delicious sweets.
But oh the candy is not my request.
I'd rather have a taste of what I consider best.

I wear a costume that is sure to inspire
The lovely treat that I desire.
Red satin skirt in peek a boo wonder
I pose and twirl to show off the lace thats under

He gasps and frowns, Young lady what are you wearing?
Do you think I want everyone outside staring?
Change those clothes without a pause
Or I'll provide some reason JUST BECAUSE.

Inside I grin for I know what I plan
I run behind the couch calling, "Catch me if you can".
He sputters indignantly and moves at quite a pace
His intention is not a leisurely race.

Within one moment his hand grabs my arm
My naughty behavior has worked like a charm
Down on the couch he sits without a pause.
And over his knee I land with obvious cause

My red satin dress is thrown up over my back
Lacy panties pulled down that are sexy and black.
And now my dear you tried a neat trick
But the treat that I get will be measured by a stick.

I gasp as he pulls out a thick wooden stick
The ruler it never occured he would pick.
He immediately starts to swat and to spank,
And I only have my silly self to give thanks.

My howling I'm sure could outdo Frankenstein.
"Please thats enough" I am beginning to whine.
The ruler continues to land hard and fast
"I will decide when we reach the smack that is last".

So I cry and I wiggle for my Halloween treat
My bottom is surely as red as a beet.
Then it is over, I let out some sighs.
Laying across his lap wi! ping tea rs from my eyes.

But I'll tell you the truth, those tears are half sorrow
And oh I know I will still celebrate Halloween tomorrow.
For while chocolate is gone after just a short snack.
A really sound spanking keeps that celebration in the back.

So Happy Halloween however you do it
Candy, apple bobbing, or licorice to chew it.
As for me I will be happy to rock, roll, and moan,
Receiving a spanking thats a treat all on its own.

I know I am rushing the holiday a bit but because I can't do much typing I am posting material that is already completed and I can cut and paste.

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Treasure Chest


What is in your treasure box?
What dreams and wishes does it hold?
Are they all wonderful or truly a mixed bag?
Sometimes we have to be careful what we wish for
the reasons we are wishing for it.
I hope you get to peek inside your treasure chest tonight
and that all is as you want it to be.
You will know where to find it, just over to the left of your dreams.

Monday, October 8, 2007

Ouch and its not my bottom



Well unbelievable as it may seem I broke a finger on my left hand doing laundry. And I am, as you may guess left handed. So as my finger recovers I am not going to be blogging much. Typing is mighty tricky. I will see what previoua writings I can post. What a klutz!!


Happy Thanksgiving to all of my Canadian Friends!!

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Smart Asses Often Have Asses That Smart

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Here is my thought for the day. Yes even a purple angel sometimes is a, well, a purple brat. I have my moments I assure you. Why do you think I need all those toys I blogged about?

Being bratty or a smart ass is an interesting hobby for a woman who is into spanking and not just for play. When I first became accountable I found myself doing things I absolutely knew were wrong and would get me spanked. To be honest I began to wonder if being a spanko meant you were just a little off. But, I found that soon I began to shape up and start playing by the rules instead of trying to break them into little pieces. I think it is a challenge to find out if the person doing the discipline is consistent in applying consequences.

Second chances don't work well for me because I usually take them. To be honest I would rather get what I have coming and then get myself back on track. My "older brother" reminded me the other day that when we first started out, I was getting three or four disciplinary spankings a week. Now I hardly ever need one.

However, I should point out something else. The comment that heads this post is a great one if you want to incite a Just Because spanking. Being a smart ass does not mean you have to do something harmful or break rules. Its sort of like saying, "So what are you going to do? Spank me?" And of course that statment is always followed by a a silent, "PLEASE!"

Friday, October 5, 2007

Could Someone Lend a Hand?



Now I have to admit that when I first started fantasizing about being spanked, the picture in my mind was always a bare hand on my bare bottom while my feet kicked and I protested loudly, but of course loving the idea totally. So implements or toys, whatever you like to call them (I prefer to avoid the word weapons), never entered into all this until I got involved in the internet and started posting and reading some blogs and groups. And I have to say, I do love certain implements. Some of them I love to hate or hate to love, but there you go, one more contradicton in the whole spanko mindset.


So I thought I would share the implements that I currently own. It is a short list since I can't afford to spend a great deal of money and many times the man doing the spanking enjoys using his own toys.


Let's start with my favorite-






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Yes its a big picture of a very small paddle. It is only 1/4 inch thick and made of purple heart wood imported from Africa. It is a medium hard wood so it does not split or break easily. It is highly varnished so that does add some sting to it. I love being spanked with this paddle, honest I do. I know there are spankees that hate wooden implements but I am not one of them. Maybe its the purple tint, maybe its the fact that I am a sting junkie, maybe its a little of all of it. But the best part is that I bought it on eBay for under ten dollars. It was handmade and arrived in the mail very inconspicuously. By the way in case you don't know on eBay such items are under the category of Everything Else. Now just how appropriate is that?




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I had fantasized about having a riding crop caress my backside for a long time after reading about it in a Shadow Lane novel. The first time my partner and I met face to face (and hand to bottom) he brought me one as a gift. Now how sweet is that. Some girls get roses but I wouldn't exchange my crop for dozens of roses. And the best part about it was he was more than willing to give it a test drive immediately, by candlelight yet! It was amazing and to be honest I find it to be a very sensual and not very severe spanking toy.


Now an implement that can be sensual or severe-


Yes it is the much feared bath brush.






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I am not sure this is the exact one but mine comes from the Vermont Country Store.


The next one pictured comes from a site called Rosy Bottom. Very well named in my opinion.

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket I own both types of bath brush. When being used for punishment they certainly get the job done. And on top of a wet backside, YIKES, it feels like your bottom is going up in smoke. However, when used intermingled with very sensual rubbing and caressing it is an excellent help in transportation to subspace, well at least for me.



But one word of caution. Two of my friends have had bath brushes broken over their backsides. Once again it is important to only allow these types of implements to be used by people you trust completely.


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Now this is similar to my hairbrush that never touches a hair on my head. As for touching my bottom that is entirely another story. Along with the bath brush this is usually what I am directed to use for self spanking. As with any wooden implement it can be fairly reasonable to very serious. But any self respecting spanko must have a wooden hairbrush. I mean it really is a tradition.




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Oh how I love the rhythm and feel of a belt or strap on my bottom. When used sensually the sound and feel can put you into an absolute trance. Really, I am not kidding. But you need a spanker with some sense of rhythm or, well, it just is not the same. And the feel of leather is amazing.

Now I have already talked about my rubber scraper on another post so I will leave that out. As for other implements, I have experienced a number of others that generous Tops were happy to share with me. And I asssure you as a switch I am very happy to share my toys as well. See it is true that the most important lessons are learned in Kindergarten. Never forget to share your toys so others will share with you.

But when it comes right down to the very best implement, nothing will ever beat that warm hand warming up my bottom and turning it all kinds of lovely colors.

Thursday, October 4, 2007

Summer Submission-F/m spanking fiction



Being outdoors on a lovely, mild summer day is such a pleasure. It not only is enjoyable but always sets my mind in fantasy mode. Today was such a day and I was determined to make it unforgettable.

The element of surprise played a large part in my plans. I began putting together a lovely picnic lunch. I found a bottle of our favorite wine, included cheese, fruit, crackers and raw vegetables with a spicy dip that my love enjoyed. For dessert I packed various types of imported cookies and also included bottled water. It was light but just perfect for a summer day.

A number of other items were hidden beneath the soft picnic blanket on the bottom of the basket. I wrapped wine glasses in cloth napkins and included them as well. After smiling at the results I went into the living room. Alex was sitting on the couch reading the paper and finishing his coffee. I put my arms around his neck from behind him and kissed his ear. “Hey have I got a surprise for you!” He leaned back and looked at me.

“Oh you do do you!” The smile on his face was as breathtaking as always.

“Yes, I have packed a picnic for us. I thought we could go out to the preserve and spend some very high quality time together. His one eyebrow lifted as he looked at the sweet smile on my face. He knew I was up to something and I was reasonably sure he wanted to find out what it was. He was wearing khaki shorts and a t shirt; I had on a light summer dress and my straw hat. No need to change, just go as we were.

Of course there were items in the picnic basket that were definitely not food but sustenance of a different kind. But that was for a bit later on.

As we drove out to the preserve Alex kept looking over at me with a grin on his face, one hand on the wheel and one on my thigh. My mind kept going over my plans. I was sure my face was flushed; the thoughts reeling through my head were so exciting.

When we reached the preserve entrance I asked Alex to drive to the area near the western edge that was heavily wooded. It was a beautiful area and very secluded. We had been here several times before, once making love on a blanket under the stars so he knew exactly where I meant. He parked in the closest parking area and we started on foot for just the right spot. Alex carried the picnic basket noting that it seemed pretty heavy. I smiled sweetly and commented that it must be the wine and wine glasses.

As we walked I looked for a likely spot for what I had in mind. We reached a small stand of trees with a picnic table nearby. Absolutely perfect. Alex put down the basket and I began to unpack it. He reached for the blanket at the bottom but I stayed his hand. “Just let me”, I spoke softly. After kissing me thoroughly he looked into my eyes, “Caryn, just what are you up to?” I smiled at him, pulled the blanket out carefully and handed it to him. He shook his head but took the blanket and spread it out near the trees on a soft patch of ground cover.

In the meantime I set out the wine, glasses, and all the food I had packed. I asked Alex if he would go and pick some wild flowers for the table, it would add just the right touch. He protested that if he got caught doing that he would get ticketed.

I gave him a very wicked grin, “Well then you had better not get caught.” Once again he gave me his lifted eyebrow, but set out to find flowers for me. What a sweet man I had. Now was my chance to finish the preparations for my surprises. I had set the food out on one end of the picnic table. Now on the other end I set out the concealed objects. First I laid out a piece of purple satin and on top of it I laid a thin wooden paddle, a lovely oval hairbrush, a purple leather strap, and a thin plastic rod.

I took the long rope I had brought and found a nearby tree with a very sturdy branch. I tested it by grabbing it with my hands and swinging my full weight on it. I threw one end of the rope over the branch. To that end I attached a double wrist restraint. I made sure I could pull the rope easily up the branch.

I returned to the picnic table and laid out two small vibrators, warming massage oil, and aloe vera lotion. I took out a long wand with an ostrich feather attached to it. Satisfied with the arrangements I went off in the direction Alex had headed. In my hand I had a very comfortable blindfold. My mind was racing with the plans I had made and my insides were quivering with excitement.

There ahead of me Alex was picking flowers from a patch of hyssop. I crept up behind him as quietly as possible. As I put my arms around his waist he jumped and almost fell over. He turned to look at me and I saw a scolding look in his eyes until he saw the blindfold, “What are you up to Caryn”.

“Alex, I am shocked at your behavior. You know picking wildflowers in the preserve is against the law. I can’t believe you would blatantly do such a thing.”

He looked from the blindfold to my face and I could see both the excitement and panic in his eyes. “But you told me…”

I shook my head in complete disbelief, “Excuses, always excuses.” Coming up behind him, I put the blindfold over his eyes and waited for his momentary panic to subside. “Now young man we are going to discuss such inappropriate behavior as breaking the law.”

His breathing had completely changed, it was shallow and fast. “Now wait a minute, this isn’t fair. I did what you told me to.”

My answer was one Moms all over the world have used for centuries, “If someone told you to jump off a bridge, would you do it?”

His shoulders slumped, “Well no, but I won’t pick anymore I promise. And I didn’t get caught.” He smiled in satisfaction.
I whispered into his ear, “Oh but you did get caught didn’t you, and by the one person who knows just what you need.”

I reached around in front of his shorts and unzipped them. He grabbed at them before they fell. “Nooo not here. I can’t even see if anyone is here or coming up the trail.”

“But my dear I can see, now let the shorts drop.” He did as I asked. At this point he knew argument would only make the situation more difficult for him and he was in deep enough as it was. Of course the fact that he loved being in that deep did nothing to lessen his anxiety.

So there stood my naughty boy with his pants around his ankles in just his briefs and a t-shirt. I could see the pink color of his face as he realized what would happen next. I hooked my finger into the waistband of his briefs and pulled them to his knees. God I loved looking at his body. I took a quiet moment to admire my wonderful man and naughty little boy.

“Now what happens to bad boys who break the law?”

He gulped hard, “Well they could say they are sorry and get a big kiss and a hug.”

I put my arms around him and hugged him as I kissed him hard on the mouth, “You can always have that my love. Now what happens to bad boys who break the law?”

“Oh God Caryn don’t spank me here please.” Even without seeing his eyes I could hear the pleading in his voice.

My voice was quiet but stern, “That is my choice, not yours and you need a short reminder right now to never break the law again.” I stood next to him, put my arm around his waist to hold him tight, and reminded him that fighting me would result in consequences he would not enjoy. I could see his muscles clench and gave him a hard smack right in the middle of his bottom to remind him that was not a good idea. He got the picture immediately, relaxed the muscles and waited for what was coming next.

As I began to spank him with sharp smacks of my hand I reminded him that breaking the law is never allowed and blaming someone else for your misdeeds is certainly not acceptable. Now even though I have small hands they do give a good stinging spanking and soon he was moving from foot to foot and I was hearing the occasional ouch, or indrawn breath. I noticed with satisfaction the layers of handprints that were a deep shade of pink. It was probably enough for this part of our adventure.

I stopped spanking and began rubbing gently over the skin I had just punished. Before I could say anything Alex had blurted out, “I won’t break the law ever again Caryn, I promise you.” His breathing began to change again as I rubbed his backside and his pleasure with my efforts was quite noticeable.

I hugged him close to me and kissed him softly. “Well now that is a very good boy. However we still have a few things to deal with.” His hand reached for the blindfold and I gently pushed it away. “Oh no young man, I am in charge and that blindfold will help you remember. Now I am going to lead you back to our picnic spot.”

“But Caryn, my clothes”, he knew when he said it that the protest would be in vain.

I smiled as I stroked his hair, “You don’t need them and I will make sure you get safely back. Besides on such a warm day clothes are such a hindrance.”

His sigh told me there would be no further protests. I took his hand and put my other arm around his waist, “Now then let’s get back to our table. I am sure you are getting hungry aren’t you?”

As he reached back to rub his bottom I had to chuckle at the hopeful look on his face thinking perhaps this was all the spanking that would be going on today. Deep inside he knew better. And if he gave it a few moments of thought he would realize just what he had to answer for.

I carefully led him back to the table. I held his waist tightly with one arm and held his hand with the other. As we walked I watched him grow more excited under my control. I leaned up and whispered in his ear, “Only naughty boys get excited about spankings you know.”

“Caryn I can’t help it, its you. How can I not be excited when I am naked in the woods with you?”


“Doesn’t change the fact that you are my bad boy”, I leaned up and kissed his cheek. We reached our picnic table and I led him past it to the blanket in the grass. Once again I hugged him and told him to kneel down. He immediately knelt down and was surprised to find himself on a soft blanket instead of the grass and ground cover. I could tell by his facial expression that he realized he was completely in my control. He reached for the blindfold once more and I stayed his hand.

“No the blindfold stays for now. We are going to have a little discussion Alex.” His face changed at the word discussion, I had to smile. “Do you remember what happened on Wednesday? I would appreciate you telling me what occurred that I told you we would be discussing later in the week.”

“Oh for Gods sake Caryn, that was no big deal. So I bought something without discussing it first. I mean I do work don’t I, it’s not like I am sitting at home doing nothing and spending your money.”

I cleared my throat, “Well that was a rude and uncalled for answer. Yes, you work and so do I. And we have agreed to discuss major expenditures together haven’t we?”
A long sigh preceded his answer, “Yes we have, and I am sorry I was rude but I just don’t see it as a big deal. So I bought a new Blackberry. I needed one, you knew that.”

“However my dear, you did not even let me know you planned to do that. What if I was aware of some other need for that money and it would have been gone.”

“So we would have taken it out of savings, big deal. C’mon Caryn get over it.”

Now this was pretty bold talk for a nude bare bottomed man kneeling on a blanket with a blindfold. But Alex could have his stubborn moments. It was my job to see they didn’t happen very often and when they did he paid the price. “Oh I am going to get over it for sure my dear. As soon as I help you understand you were wrong and I am assured you won’t do it again.”

I took the blindfold off his face and he stood up. I turned him around so he could see the array on the picnic table. “Now look, aren’t you overreacting just a bit. I mean you knew I needed that blackberry. It wasn’t a big surprise that I got one now was it?”

“Alex we have discussed your spending problems before. You know what you did was wrong and you know the consequences.” I stood quietly waiting for his answer.

After a moment of contemplation he agreed, “Yes I knew I should have discussed it with you, I am truly sorry, and yes I know you are going to spank me.”

“And tell me Alex do you deserve this, do you agree this is what you have coming to you?”

I knew this was the most difficult part for him, admitting that setting his backside on fire was what he had coming. He also knew from what was on the table what other activities he could expect. But he also knew the longer he waited the more trouble he would be in. So his answer was subdued but right on time, “Yes I totally deserve a good spanking, I broke one of our agreements.”

I kissed his cheek gently, “Now take the paddle and go back to the blanket please.”

He looked at me sadly, picked up the paddle and walked back over to the blanket. Since he was well aware of our routines he knelt down on the blanket and leaned forward on his hands. Alex was well aware I wanted his bottom up high in the air. I walked over and ran my hand over his bare bottom. A small shiver ran through his body.

I knelt beside him and spoke softly but sternly, “Now I expect you to hold this position and answer any question I ask respectfully, is that clear?”

A very small, “Yes Caryn.”

I put my right hand on his back and laid the wooden paddle on his bottom, moving it in small circles. He moaned softly and I could see the obvious excitement this was causing. I lifted the paddle and brought it down with a resounding smack on his left cheek. He drew in breath and I saw his hands clutch the blanket. I began to smack the paddle back and forth from side to side. The tension in Alex’s back was increasing and I stopped after 20 spanks. I leaned down to look at his face, it was tense but he was alright. “God Caryn I swear I will never do it again, can’t that be enough? It stings like crazy.”

“No my dear we are not finished but you are taking this very well, I am proud of you. You are being such a good boy.” I moved back into position and laid the paddle on his blazing bottom. It was a light red and I knew I would be increasing the depth of color momentarily. The paddle lifted and landed 20 times on his left cheek, then 20 on his right. He began to moan and occasionally cry out. The next 20 were right across the middle of his bottom. Although his bottom became very active in moving from right to left he did not try to get out of position.

“Caryn please no more, I can’t take any more. Please.” The sound of his voice was extremely sincere. But I wasn’t finished. This was an important lesson that needed to be learned.

I put the paddle aside, “Now Alex I am going to prepare you to eat lunch. Then I am going to finish your spanking after we eat. Now lay down on your stomach.”

He did so and I very gently rubbed some lotion into his sore red skin. I could feel the heat coming off his bottom and he groaned as I rubbed but not entirely in pain. When I asked him to stand up the source of his groaning was evident. I shook my head in mock disbelief, “Now look how naughty you are, getting excited over a spanking.” I gave him a playful swat on his bottom and we walked to the picnic table. After a big hug I invited him to sit down on the bench.

His look was utter disbelief, “You have got to be kidding. You want me to sit on a hard wooden bench. Have a heart Caryn.” Well I did have a heart and I smiled lovingly went to the picnic basket and got a small cushion I had brought along. Alex smiled in relief and proceeded to sit down on the cushion. I could certainly tell by the way he squirmed and moved that although it was better than wood it was not exactly comfortable.

I sat down next to him and we kissed and hugged each other as we ate the light lunch I had brought along. Alex leaned his head on my shoulder, “Caryn I really am sorry for what I did. Honest that was quite a spanking, I won’t do it again.”

Now having been into spanking for awhile I recognize a bare bottom promise when I hear one. “Alex my dear, I think you need a reminder of just who is in charge.” I went to the end of the table, picked up a plug and lubricant and returned to him.

“Noooo Caryn please.”

One stern look was all it took and he stood and bent over the table. I squeezed out the lubricant and ran my fingers down the crack in his bottom. I could see sweat on his face and noticed his legs trembling. I lubricated the plug well and very slowly and gently inserted it completely into his bottom. He groaned and clung to the table his butt muscles clenching. “Alright young man sit down immediately.” He did as told but I could see by his face and body position the burning bottom and the fullness of the plug were both uncomfortable and incredibly erotic.

We both sat close and cuddled as we ate the light summer foods. The wine was light and delicious and I could see Alex relaxing against the tingling discomfort he was feeling. He put his head down on my shoulder, “Caryn I really am sorry for not discussing that purchase with you first. You know I am. Can you forgive me for that?” His voice was hopeful.

I held him close, “You will be forgiven, I promise before the day is over.”

I could see he was about to continue the discussion when we heard voices behind us coming up the trail. Alex’s eyes widened in panic, “God Caryn, I have no clothes on.” I reached up to the table and draped the purple satin over his lap. It was still obvious he was nude but nothing inappropriate was showing.

The hikers we heard soon passed by our picnic table but far enough away that I knew they could see little or nothing. Alex on the other hand was ready to panic and head for the hills. With a small smile I could also see how excited he was by the possibility of being seen. I gently lay my hand on his lap, “You are the naughtiest boy in the world I swear you are.”

I watched the hikers go by and saw one woman glance our way and then look back again at us very quickly. She nudged one of her companions who looked over and then I watched her jaw drop. I waved merrily at the group and Alex looked over in the direction I was waving. He groaned as he saw the two women trying to be inconspicuous but staring nonetheless. The group continued on its way as I finished the last of the wine in my glass. I gently rubbed Alex’s back and squeezed his bottom. He turned towards me and took me in his arms kissing me passionately. As our embrace broke I pushed the hair back from his face and gazed into his blue eyes that were smoldering. “Now young man take this cushion and lay over it on the blanket.”

Panic filled his face, “But what if those people come back, what then.” His voice was filled with concern but also excitement. If I knew anything I knew my boy and man.

I whispered in his ear, “Then they will get quite a show and perhaps learn something new.” He shivered in response despite the warmth of the day. Without another word he moved to the blanket and positioned himself stomach down on the pillow. His poor bottom was bright red and the plug was beginning to slowly move out. I knelt next to him and removed it slowly as I caressed his skin.

He moaned very softly and spread his legs apart. My hand reached between his legs and caressed his cock and balls. Then I reached over and put the blindfold back on. I didn’t want him to see what I was going to do next. He did not protest but laid his head in his arms as his breathing deepened. I went to the picnic table and got the rest of the supplies I wanted. Oh how I loved giving him the pleasure he needed and wanted and how I loved the feelings within me. I knelt next to him on the blanket and took my leather strap in hand. I rubbed his shoulders and kissed his burning bottom. “Now my dear, the last part of your punishment.” He held his breath. I didn’t have to swing the strap hard to have it make an impression. He caught his breath and the next snap against his bottom had him yelling despite his intention not too. After ten more spanks with the strap I stopped and lay down next to him holding him close to my body. I could see the tears on his cheeks and kissed them gently away. “Alex you know we have that rule about not buying items without discussion for a reason. We don’t want to lose track of our finances and risk being in any financial trouble. I know a blackberry is no big deal but it still is a considerable expenditure. I do love you and I am almost done. You have been so brave and so good about all of this, I am very proud of you.” The tears continued to fall very quietly.

I sighed as I got up on my knees and picked up the cane. “Alex, you need to stand up and come with me.” He sighed and, without question stood and waited for whatever was coming next. I guided him over to the tree and asked him to put his hands in front, wrists close together. Even with the blindfold on he knew what was coming, but he said nothing. I quietly and gently attached the wrist restraints. After making sure they were on securely I pulled the other end of the rope until my lover’s hands were over his head but not stretched to discomfort. Then I tied the end of the rope around a lower branch. Once again his excitement at being without control was evident. “My dear, the last part of your punishment is the cane.” His body tensed and he unknowingly pulled back from me. I instructed him to stand still, and separate his legs slightly to hold the position. He sighed and did as I asked. I kissed his cheek and then tapped the cane on the very tops of his thighs where I intended the strokes to go. I gave him five strokes at the very top of his thighs. Half strokes that stung but left no welt. He cried out with each one and told me how sorry he was. By the fifth stroke it was easy to believe him.

I immediately released the restraints and put my arms around him holding him close to me and rubbing his back. I walked him back to the blanket and had him lay down on his stomach.

The next step was so necessary to reestablish our connection. I began to rub a cooling lotion on his bottom. I was very gentle and careful. “All is forgiven sweetheart, the slate is clean.”

As I rubbed I heard my love say, “Thank you Caryn, I certainly deserved that, I know I did. I so appreciate how much you care about me and our life together.”

Stretching out next to him on the blanket I took him in my arms and held him very close. He was squirming uncomfortably and I knew the burning on his backside was not the only reason but I was doing this my way as he well knew. We cuddled close to each other kissing and rubbing each other’s backs. I gently rubbed his punished bottom. The blindfold remained in place as I picked up the fluffy ostrich feather on a wand. I began to gently touch his sore backside with it. “Noooooo”, he groaned. But I knew by now when no meant oh God yes don’t stop. Every time I picked up the feather he never knew where it would land next. Each touch of it made his body jump slightly. I love watching him. Then I finally brushed it between his legs and down his thighs. His bottom arched up and I could see how hard and excited he was.

I quickly picked up the lubricant and rubbed it over the crack of his bottom and into the opening I was about to invade. “Oh God Caryn no not out here.” I gave him a brief smack on the bottom.

“No back talk young man.” I continued with the lubricant and chose which vibrator I wanted to use and lubricated it as well.

I gently began to insert the vibrator slowly and then turned it on. As I did so I also reached down to massage his hard cock and tease his balls with a nail massage. I moved the vibrator in and out slowly and continue my ministrations with my hands. I could feel his body start to stiffen and his bottom moved up towards the vibrator. This is what I had waited for. I could feel the hot, wet excitement between my own legs and knew how badly I wanted him.

As I removed the vibrator slowly, I whispered, “Alex I want you so much, I can’t take much more.” I tore off the blindfold and turned over on my back. I could see the passion in every angle of his gorgeous face.

He pushed my dress up knowing I would have nothing on underneath to impede him. My legs separated and he ran his fingers down through my pussy and rubbed my clit firmly but slowly. Now it was my turn to moan.

As he entered me and thrust deep and hard I wrapped my legs around his waist and pulled his bottom closer with my hands

Our bodies moved together and I squeezed his stinging bum with my hands. I could still feel the heat coming off of them. It was as if I had given him the signal he was waiting for. With one more deep thrust he came hard and my body began to pulse around him inside. If felt as if I would never stop coming, wave after wave.

We collapsed into each other’s arms. I brushed his hair back and asked if he was alright. The little boy grin I loved popped up on his face. “Of course I am who could resist a summer picnic.” We both began laughing. Oh he was such delight, the man of my dreams and the boy of my heart.

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Pretty Sure This One Would be Solved



I loved this site I picked up at Bonnie's Blog, My Bottom Smarts. I have a feeling that cubes like this would have kept hands busy manipulating them until a solution was found.

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Sorry the cuffs have to go


One of the interesting aspects of the spanking party I am attending is their attitude that the Tops may be spanking but the bottoms are in charge. Now this is along with the rules; safe, sane, consensual, and NO means NO.
Nothing is done without asking the spankees permission. That includes raising skirts and lowering panties. You can't be forced to count spanks if you don't want to. No one can force you to stand in the corner. Safewords must be respected and implements agreed upon. Now that really pertains to the people you are meeting at the party to play with. Of course, if you are there with your partner and mate your play may take other forms and certain understandings may already be in place.
The people that belong to Crimson Moon are diverse indeed. It is not specifically DD, D/s, or BDSM. Anyone in the scene is welcome as long as they respect the rules and the rights of others. For example, bare bottoms are allowed in the social room for spanking, but no other nudity is allowed except in private rooms. And activities other than spanking can only go on in private rooms. Since this group has been doing this for fourteen years they certainly know what they are doing. And all you have to do if someone bothers you after you politely refuse is tell a board member.
So I feel safe attending this event. I think it will be a voyage of discovery in many ways. I am still considering the private vs. public issue. But in any case I do have a few hard lines I don't cross;
No hog tieing or extreme bondage
I don't count strokes, it diverts my attention from where I want it focused
Ok I usually don't stand in corners but I probably would if asked to as part of play
No soap in the mouth
No implement or play that breaks the skin
No sexual touching unless it is my partner
Safe words must be respected immediately
I can only hold positions where I am somewhat supported due to physical issues so I can't bend over, hold my knees and get spanked or caned.
Please ask before you move my clothing
As of right now that is where I am at. I know it sounds like topping from the bottom but it really is about safety and comfort. If I am insecure I certainly can't enjoy myself.
Let me know what you think. And as far as the cuffs go, if they weren't metal, I wouldn' t mind.

Monday, October 1, 2007

Viewed or Private?

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At the end of this month I am going to my first spanking party. This has surely been a year of firsts for me. First birthday spanking, and my first spanking party, I will share other firsts in a different post. But the spanking party brings up a really interesting issue for me.



Public Spanking or Strictly Private Spanking?



First of all I am not going to this party to be punished. I would never enjoy a public punishment spanking. And the word party does not lend itself to punishment, it is definitely play, Just Because, sensual, or fun spanking.



This party is sponsored by Crimson Moon in Chicago. You can play publicly in the social room or privately in hotel rooms. So I have been thinking a great deal about the idea of having my bottom bared in front of others while I am spanked. This certainly takes some consideration especially considering my body is not one that people would ever line up to look at. But, hey, its the only one I have.



Now on the side of public spankings, I am extremely adventurous and I don't embarrass easily. I think that is because I have spent so much hospital time. Almost any health care worker in the town I live in has seen me in the buff. I have become rather desensitized. Besides, I will admit to a sort of naughty excitement at the thought of being spanked in front of others. And I have a feeling I will barely realize any one is watching once the spanking begins. Those wild endorphins really take me away. Besides if you are in public there is less chance for anyone to do anything inappropriate.



Ok now let's look at private spanking. It is more intimate to be with just one person and perhaps opens up options for more sensual possibilities. When I say sensual I mean sensual sensation, not having sex with the men I play with. And it does give you a chance to talk and get to know the other person better, leaving open the possibility for friendships to develop which is one of the reasons I am attending the party.



In any case I know I will certainly agree to bare bottom spanking, I can't imagine any other way. I mean a swat on the back of your skirt is one thing but a whole spanking over clothing, even panties seems sort of unnatural for me.



So I am sure I will be pondering this until the party comes along. The possibilities are delicious no matter what I decide. OTK, over pillows, over a spanking bench....yes, delicious is the right word.



Oh and, yes, I intend to be completely careful. More about that on another post.